Blackberry problems

Have u ever been being talked to and u are not payin any attention cus u have a message or text on ur blackberry? Maybe it is important so u take a peek, then u get sucked in the cyber world. Maybe its for bad messages that we cant mention or for business ones, related to your health, or just because ones. Is that a problem? Its like when u pass notes in school, I did, got caught once but I set it up on purpose. I know what my boss better not ask for my blackberry they wont want to read the message I just sent or received.